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    RHONJ Blog – That is life; Take out the Toxic!

    I need you to listen and listen closely …
    When people ask me why there are evil people in the world, the answer is simple … I believe God made all types of people so we can differentiate between the good and the bad; otherwise, how would we know the difference? Not everyone can be “good” and most of us really strive to be better people.

It’s what we’re faced with in life, but what can we do? We can educate ourselves, do our best to walk a straight line and listen to our gut instincts. For some, it’s so easy and for others it takes a bit longer, but what I want to teach you in this blog is how to RECOGNIZE a toxic person! Energy speaks to you. Have you ever been around someone who makes you feel uncomfortable? Perhaps you can’t believe what you are seeing or you hear them talk and what they are saying doesn’t sound right. Your gut tells you to run but you are too scared to move. You start to feel bad for them because life has been hard for them, you make up excuses for them and you pray that tomorrow morning they get up and are totally different. Well, my friends, this is the best advice I can give you: RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN for the door!!! Repeat after me: YOU CANNOT HELP A PERSON WHO DOESN’T WANT TO HELP THEMSELF. It is not your job. Some people are sneaky, manipulative, bitter, jealous, and can’t get out of their own way. It’s true. It’s a fact of life. There are people right now in your life that you are thinking about that fit this description. If they are family members, spend as little time with them as possible. If they’re not related to you, run for the hills. You don’t owe anyone anything. You are entitled to be happy, to have your own opinion, to be free, to be loved, to be wonderful and to have joy in your life! You are entitled to live your life YOUR WAY and not under some toxic spell! I beg you! Today is the day that you cut the rope and all ties with those who are toxic in your life! Siggy XO